In this study, we analyze one French signing and one French speaking family's interaction during dinner. The families composed of two parents and two children aged 3 to 11 were filmed with three cameras to capture all family members' behaviors. The three videos per dinner were synchronized and coded on ELAN. We annotated all participants' acting, and languaging. Our quantitative analyses show how family members collaboratively manage multiple streams of activity through the embodied performances of dining and interacting. We uncover different profiles according to participants' modality of expression and status (focusing on the mother and the younger child). The hearing participants' co-activity management illustrates their monitoring of dining and conversing and how they progressively master the affordances of the visual and vocal channels to maintain the simultaneity of the two activities. The deaf mother skillfully manages to alternate smoothly between dining and interacting. The deaf younger child manifests how she is in the process of developing her skills to manage multi-activity. Our qualitative analyses focus on the ecology of visual-gestural and audio-vocal languaging in the context of co-activity according to language and participant. We open new perspectives on the management of gaze and body parts in multimodal languaging.